Beyond the Silence

A Perinatal Loss Support Training

Beyond the Silence is a compassionate training program designed to equip birth professionals and community members with the skills to support families experiencing pregnancy, infant, and child loss. Through trauma-informed education, grief theory, and practical tools, this program fosters understanding, empathy, and confidence in holding space for those navigating unimaginable heartbreak. Participants learn how to offer emotional support, advocate within healthcare settings, and connect families with essential resources—helping to break the silence surrounding loss and create a more compassionate community.

This 6 hour workshop will give you practical and empathetic tools to help support those moving through loss

What will we cover in this bereavement training?

This 6 hour workshop will give you practical and empathetic tools to help support those through loss.

Role of a bereavement support

Ethical Considerations

Signs of grief

Types of grief & loss

Self-Care & Boundaries

Cultural, spiritual, and individual variations in grieving

What grieving can look like

Resources

Practical guidance for support

Trimesters and timing of loss including breastfeeding

Medical and Physiological Aspects of Loss

Core Principles of Trauma-Informed Care

Supporting partners and extended family

Helping family move forward

What is a Bereavement Doula / Loss Doula ?

A bereavement doula is a specially trained support person who provides compassionate, nonjudgmental care to families experiencing pregnancy, infant, or child loss.

They offer emotional support, help navigate medical and funeral decisions, create meaningful memories, and connect families with resources for ongoing healing.

Their role is to hold space with empathy, honor the family’s grief, and ensure they are not alone during one of life’s most difficult moments.

How will this training help me become a bereavement doula ?

Develop trauma-informed care skills – Training teaches you how to recognize trauma responses, hold space safely, and avoid causing further emotional harm.

Learn effective emotional support techniques – Training equips you with practical tools for active listening, validating emotions, and creating a calming presence during times of intense grief.

Navigate hospital policies and medical procedures – Training helps you understand common medical interventions, terminology, and institutional processes that families may encounter.

Connect families with resources – Training prepares you to share information about support groups, mental health professionals, and community resources for continued healing.

Understand grief theory and cultural variations – You’ll learn about different grieving styles, cultural and spiritual practices, and how to honor each family’s unique experience.

Build confidence in difficult conversations – You’ll learn sensitive communication skills for interacting with bereaved families, healthcare providers, and loved ones.

Provide guidance for siblings and family members – You’ll learn strategies to support parents in talking with children and extended family about loss.

Enhance your professional credibility – Completing bereavement doula training demonstrates a higher level of expertise and compassion, making you a trusted resource for families and healthcare providers.

Ready to join us?

the knowledge, confidence, and emotional tools I needed

Taking the Beyond the Silence bereavement doula training completely transformed the way I support families.

Before this course, I often felt unsure of what to say or how to hold space for parents experiencing loss. The training gave me the knowledge, confidence, and emotional tools I needed to truly be present without fear of saying the wrong thing.

I learned so much about grief theory, cultural and spiritual considerations, and practical ways to support not only parents but siblings and extended family.

Now, when I walk into a hospital room or a family’s home after a loss, I feel grounded and prepared. I can gently guide families through an incredibly difficult time and connect them with the resources they need for healing.

This training didn’t just help my career—it changed me as a person. I am deeply grateful for the compassion and clarity it has brought to my work.

- Jessica M
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What is needed for this training:

This course is considered an advanced course so basic knowledge of physiological and emotional aspects of birth and postpartum are needed. It is suggested to have a labor doula or postpartum doula training before taking this course, but it is not required.

You just need to have a passion for birth and want to help families through this crucial time in their life. There are no prerequisites and no requirements of college or background in birth.

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Where and how long is this training:

Depending on which training you sign up for this training can be in person, or live via zoom. We are based out of Florida however, we travel and train in person all over the country! From Alaska, to Hawaii, Florida , California and the northeast! If you don’t see a location close to you or that you want to travel to, message us to find out how we can come to you.

The In person training is 6-8 hours, the virtual ones vary depending on class size and if you are doing it at your own pace!

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What is included in this training:

This training will include handouts, pamphlets, and resource guides in addition to the training content.

support grieving families with compassion & professionalism

I have been a postpartum doula for years, but I always felt unprepared when a family experienced a miscarriage or stillbirth. The Beyond the Silence training filled in those gaps in such a meaningful way. It didn’t just teach me what to do—it taught me how to be present in a way that truly honors a family’s grief.

The sections on trauma-informed care and navigating hospital policies were invaluable. I now feel confident supporting families through the most heartbreaking moments, offering comfort, gentle guidance, and resources for their ongoing healing. This training gave me the confidence to step into a role that so many families desperately need. I can’t recommend it enough to anyone who wants to support grieving families with compassion and professionalism.

- Maria L
Postpartum Doula

Upcoming Bereavement Doula Trainings

  • No in-person trainings are currently scheduled, please contact us for more information!

Please reach out to Ruth if you are looking for a private or a self paced Bereavement Doula Training!

What does this class cover?

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Module One

Role of a Bereavement Support & Ethical Considerations

This module explores the vital role of a bereavement doula in supporting families through loss with compassion and professionalism. You’ll learn how to hold space, provide emotional and practical support, and navigate sensitive situations with cultural and spiritual awareness. We also cover essential ethical considerations—maintaining clear boundaries, respecting confidentiality, and ensuring trauma-informed, nonjudgmental care for every family you serve.

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Module Two

Understanding Grief & Loss

In this module, you’ll learn to recognize the many signs of grief—emotional, physical, and behavioral—and gain insight into the different types of grief. We’ll also explore the various types of loss families may experience, from miscarriage and stillbirth to neonatal and infant death. This knowledge will help you better understand each family’s unique journey and respond with empathy and informed support.

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Module Three

Cultural, Spiritual, & Individual Grieving

This module dives into the many ways grief can be expressed, shaped by cultural, spiritual, and individual beliefs and practices. You’ll discover how grieving can look different for each person and family, from silent reflection to outward rituals of remembrance. We’ll also share a range of resources and community support to help families navigate their healing journey in ways that honor their values and traditions.

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Module Four

Practical Guidance for Bereavement Support

This module offers clear, compassionate strategies for supporting grieving families in real-life situations. You’ll learn how to hold space, offer comforting words, provide practical assistance, and gently guide families through immediate decisions after loss. We’ll also cover ways to support siblings and extended family members, collaborate with healthcare providers, and create meaningful keepsakes or rituals. These hands-on tools will help you feel confident and prepared to offer truly healing support.

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Module Five

Timing of Loss & Medical Aspects

In this module, we explore how the trimester and timing of a loss impact both the physical and emotional experience for families. You’ll gain insight into the medical and physiological aspects of loss, including procedures, postpartum recovery, and how lactation and breastfeeding can be affected after loss. Understanding these details will help you provide compassionate, informed support and guide families through the unique challenges they may face during each stage.

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Module Six

Core Principles of Trauma-Informed Care

This module focuses on the foundations of trauma-informed care, ensuring you can support grieving families with sensitivity and awareness. You’ll learn how trauma affects the body and mind, how to recognize triggers, and ways to create a safe, compassionate environment for healing. By understanding these core principles, you’ll be better equipped to provide support that honors each family’s emotional needs without causing further harm.

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Module Seven

Supporting Partners, Extended Family & Moving Forward

This module teaches you how to extend compassionate care beyond the parents, offering meaningful support to partners, siblings, and extended family members who are also grieving. You’ll learn strategies to help families honor their loss while gently guiding them toward healing and moving forward at their own pace. We’ll explore ways to foster connection, provide resources for ongoing support, and help families find hope after heartbreak.

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Module Eight

Self-Care & Boundaries for the Bereavement Doula

This module emphasizes the importance of protecting your own well-being while supporting grieving families. You’ll learn how to recognize signs of compassion fatigue, set healthy emotional and professional boundaries, and create self-care practices that sustain you in this deeply meaningful work. By caring for yourself, you’ll be better equipped to provide steady, compassionate support to the families who need you most.

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This course was exactly what I needed. It gave me the knowledge, confidence, and compassion to truly support families through loss. I feel prepared and deeply honored to do this work now.

- Chrissy

Frequently Asked Questions

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Questions about the bereavement training:

How long is the bereavement training?

The bereavement doula training is 6-8 hours depending on class size.

What can I do with what I'll learn in this bereavement training?

You’ll be able to support families through miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss with compassion and confidence. This training prepares you to offer bereavement doula services, work alongside hospitals or community programs, and guide families with resources and healing practices.

What do I need to know about doing loss work?

Grief is unique for everyone – No two families grieve the same way; your role is to hold space without judgment or expectation.

Silence and presence matter – Often, the most powerful support is simply being there, listening, and honoring the family’s experience.

Boundaries are essential – Protecting your emotional well-being helps you remain a steady and compassionate presence.

Cultural and spiritual sensitivity is vital – Families may have different beliefs, rituals, and traditions around loss that must be respected.

You are a guide, not a fixer – Your role is to support and empower families, not to take away their pain or make decisions for them.

Do you offer mentoring?

We offer both Private mentoring and online virtual mentoring. Virtual mentoring is a go at your own pace set of modules that are added to every year. Private mentoring can be purchased in packages and are based on the time that Ruth has available. Enquire directly with us to find out costs and availability.

I am not sure about something on how to do this work, can we chat first?

Absolutely. I often have people who aren’t sure if they will even be able to do this work and if it is a good time for them. You can reach out and let us know your concerns and we will help brainstorm with you and make sure you understand everything. It is important you feel safe and understood when signing up for such an important workshop.

General questions about trainings:

What happens after I register for the training?

Once your registration is complete, if you haven’t paid online you will be contacted to pay how it works for you. Once paid, you will get a welcome letter with details about the course within a week as well as what you need to know before the course.

What do I do if I want to host an in person training here?

We travel and train all over the country. We have gone to Alaska, California, Hawaii, Montana, Georgia, Illinois, Arizona, Florida, Virginia, Connecticut and New York! We are always looking to expand!

You can check the schedule if there is something close to you, if there isn’t and you want to bring a training to your area, reach out to the office and let them know what training you are looking at, your location and if you have an idea when you would like the training to come to you.

Do you offer virtual classes AND in person classes?

Yes. Currently, we offer four different options to take the training.

1) In person at different locations around the country

2) Virtual training done via Zoom

3) Prerecorded trainings where you watch videos at your own pace

4) Private training where you schedule with the trainer virtually or in person when it works for both of you.

Questions about the investment:

Are there scholarships available?

Community Calling Inc is a non-profit 501 (c )3 that when funding is available offers full or partial scholarships. Sometimes we have funding specific for BIPOC, Military, Location based etc.

If we don’t have funding at the time, you are put on a waiting list until some arrives. If you are in need, you can go to www.communitycallinginc.org.

Do you do payment plans?

Yes we do. You can apply with Paypal for financing, as well as Affirm and Klarna. If you need a specific payment plan, please reach out. Take note, ALL payment plans must be paid before the beginning of class.

What discounts are offered?

We offer 25% off for all BIPOC in any location of any workshop type who need the discount.

We frequently run specials around holidays, refer a friend, sign up for more than one class at a time, early bird options and more. If you have questions please check in with us to see if we have any specials at the time.

Questions about certification:

How does certification work?

Certification with us is as easy as taking a test. That is all that is required. After each workshop, you are sent a link for the test which is done online. You have to pass with an 80% or higher for certification. If you fail, you can retake the test for a small fee.

We believe that getting out there and getting hands on experience is the best way to learn about this work. So the sooner you start working, the more you will learn. We offer mentoring to help you along the way and a group online to ask questions in a safe place.

What about recertification?

At this time, we do not require recertification. Once you are certified you keep the certification unless you have a grievance filed with us and we find you were out of line. Unless regulation becomes mandated and I am required to change that rule, it will stay this way.

We do however highly recommend that you do Continuing education to stay up to date in the profession and your line of work.

Can I cross certify?

Absolutely. If you are trained or certified with another organization, you can cross certify with any of our programs at 50% off (proof of prior training required).

What do I do if I have more questions?

Always reach out and ask. It is important to us that you are comfortable with us and you know your voice matters and is heard when taking any of our workshops.

I felt guided every step of the way

When I faced my first client loss, I was overwhelmed and unsure how to best support the family. Through the mentoring I received in this program, I felt guided every step of the way. I learned how to hold space with compassion, honor the family’s wishes, and take care of my own emotions in the process. Having that support and wisdom from Ruth to lean on made all the difference in how I showed up for my client during such a heartbreaking time.

- ANON